The Importance of Firm Boundaries While Exploring with Mr. & Ms. I

Ms. I reached out to me on a Sunday to meet the same week on a Thursday. She told me she had been following my blogs for a while and wanted to book an in person session with her and her boyfriend. She wanted to speak on the phone before our session together to ensure she could clearly communicate what she envisioned for our shared time together.

That week I was particularly busy with my sick family member so unfortunately I couldn’t make time to chat until Wednesday - which was still well before our session. I asked to call her and she agreed. She told me that she enjoys playing with women and likes to fantasize about playing with men - without crossing that boundary. She told me she has boundaries with her boyfriend and other women, explaining to me that she’s jealous but I interjected that it’s perfectly acceptable (and healthy for the relationship) to have these firm boundaries. She wanted to mention to me that he loves prostate play but she wasn’t sure if he’d feel comfortable exploring with me as a stranger. “I will bring it up nonchalantly” I replied. “I have a gift of making people feel comfortable, but I won’t pressure him or push him further than he is comfortable with exploring” I reassured her.

Love should not always be confused with sexual pleasure when involving others in play time. It sounded like we were speaking the same language and she felt more comfortable about our session the following day.

The time came and they walked through my door. I can’t describe how much of a smoke show she was with words. Especially being in her 50s. I told her I hope that I looked as good as she does when I reach her age.

I experienced them to be a really cute couple. Having life experiences with previous relationships, I could tell that they valued the relationship that they had with each other. It was so beautiful to see their connection.

They brought some wine so I took out my corkscrew and allowed Mr. I to do the honors. I pulled out three (unmatching) glasses and he poured one glass for each of us.

I led them over to her couch and we sat and chatted for a bit. We talked about our lives and reflected again on what her and I spoke about on the phone. “Despite having fun with sex and other women, I still hold some traditional values. I want him all to myself and he is the only man I want to be with” she shared. Perhaps I could be wrong but I had the sense that she was defending her position - and I wanted her to know that she doesn’t have to justify her boundaries and that no one should be trying to push them and (especially) interfere in their relationship. “You don’t owe me, or anyone else an explanation for your boundaries. I love that you know them and stay firm with what is comfortable for both of you”. Ms. I also stressed the importance of feeling connected with the person they are playing with. I validated this, stating that I have to feel connected as well, otherwise it will not be an enjoyable experience for me.

I did have the chance to bring up prostate play and Mr. I was totally comfortable with playing. Many men enjoy prostate play - there is never anything to feel shy or ashamed about and it turns Ms. I on to know her boyfriend loves it too.

After sometime laughing, chatting and connecting, we decided to make our way to my play room. She took off her dress to reveal her fit body and sat him on my white chair facing my massage table. She laid down on my massage table face down but I could barely massage her. She was so turned on and ready to get fucked - she couldn’t take it anymore. I think all of the chatting and connecting on the couch was enough foreplay for her.

She jumped up and stripped her husband down. She wanted to badly to suck his cock. He was so turned on just watching how horny she was. She handed me the strap on that they brought and I slid it on while she began sucking his cock. She told me that she fantasized about sucking two cocks at once but it has to remain as such - just a fantasy. He stood up and she turned to both of us standing side by side - taking turns sucking his and my cock.

She hopped up on the massage table, face down ass up while Mr. I slid his cock inside her pussy. She was meaning loudly with pleasure while she sucked my cock and came over and over again. She is a sex goddess.

Mr. I switched spots with me and I had the pleasure of taking her from behind while she deep throated his cock. She came over and over again. She reminded me of the female counterpart of Sir Cums A Lot - I wondered who could last longer.

After quite a few orgasms (I lost count), he hopped up on the massage table and she straddled him, facing him and taking the lead by riding on his cock. She came over and over again, riding him like a pony. I sat between his legs and played with his bum. She wanted me to give him a prostate massage. I was playing with the outside of his bum while she was bouncing on his cock, slowly sliding my finger inside of him. He was loving it but at some point, it became overstimulating and so he asked me to remove my finger. “Thank you for telling me” I stated but I continue to play with the outside of his bum, putting pressure on his perineum and lightly running my nails around the ring of his asshole.

After several more orgasms, she hopped off the massage table and started sucking his cock. She knows how much he loves blowjobs - which man doesn’t? I was still teasing him and playing with his balls with my other hand. She was sucking his cock, faster and faster until he finally blew his load. She slowed down with his orgasm and was licking up his cum from his belly. The way that they were so into each other was so beautiful. It was such a whirlwind of a session but both Mr. I and myself allowed for her to take the lead.

I found it so sexy the way that she led the whole session. Over the phone, she did tell me that she’s the one who orchestrates everything and he follows along with it. Many men would love to be in this type of female lead relationship - and I think many women would feel liberated in so many aspects of their relationship if they knew the power that they had. So many men that I meet always have to take the reins in their lives - from personal, financial, familial and professional. Many men desire to have someone take the pressure away from decision making - particularly during sex. I take that pressure off of men from having to make these decisions, having to perform and just enjoying the moments shared. Ms. I certainly does this for her boyfriend and it is so beautiful to see.

She said they are interested in joining the next couple party and I reassured them that their boundaries will be upheld. Let’s see what the future will bring.