Decision fatigue is feeling tired of always having to make decisions in your life. Many people will feel depleted overtime and cognition will become impaired due to burnout and mental exhaustion. The quality of one’s decisions can also be impacted overtime as the number of decisions increase.
This is where I step in as your gatekeeper. I break up the expectation to have to make decisions, in a context that is both arousing and relaxing simultaneously. I can have you start by laying face down, massaging you with a firm and light tough at the same time. I will watch your body language communicate to me what you like, where you like to be touched and how you like to be touched. I will explore your body with my hands, allowing you to receive differently levels of stimulation, perhaps sensations you’ve never experienced before or never imagined in areas can be pleasurable. I take charge of the session but also allow you to ask for what you want, if you desire something specific within my boundaries.
Recently, I met a wonderful person who never knew he enjoyed external bum play, with light touch mixed with firm pressure. He described this sensation as cumming over and over again. I kept him on the edge of ecstasy for five minutes straight.
I’ve met many other individuals who enjoy being milked, both internally and externally, on all fours. They didn’t explicitly tell me but I could read in their body language that this was something they desired.
A common thing that I hear during my sessions is “do whatever you want”. This is typically coming from a person who has given up full control, who trusts that I will never hurt them, but I will do everything to bring them to a higher level of pleasure and keep them there for as long as possible. They trust that I will help them lose their mind in the best way possible. I love watching peoples eyes rolled to the back of their head with prolonged ecstasy and pleasure from the decisions that I make on their behalf, with them verbally communicating that they “cannot think” or “they don’t know what to do” because the pleasure is so great, something that may be foreign to most men.
I’ve noticed many men communicate that in sexual situations with female partners, most men hold these expectations that they must “perform” within certain standards. They have always been focused on their partner’s pleasure, making decisions to ensure their partner has experienced multiple orgasms and putting their own pleasure last out of fear of “not performing well” or fear of disappointment from their partner.
There is a societal expectation between sexual performance and masculinity. I break down these expectations. Performance and decision making are not part of your experience with me. It is my job to keep you on the edge within prolonged and diverse pleasure, not allowing you to reach climax until I’m ready to make that decision (or until you explicitly state that you’re ready to). It’s amazing how giving up that control or pressure to make decisions can actually enhance and increase your pleasure.
There are also other ways to combat decision fatigue in your everyday life, which can be read here.
In addition to taking a break with me, you can also take a break doing other things you love, such as exercising, cooking, going for a walk, etc. Minimalize the stress you put on making daily decisions that may not hold many repercussions, try to make them as quickly as possible without overthinking and simplify your life. Some decisions can’t be made lightly so save your energy for those important moments and recharge your battery by participating in things that require minimal decision making.
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