The Butterfly Affect: Autumn’s Collar of Submission

First Email

Hi Roberto

I see that we have matched on meetfriends.com and I figured I’d reach out since we are both in the Oakville area and your profile intrigued me. I especially liked the part where you said that you own your business so being in charge of my own business is my goal in the near future.

I wanted to introduce myself. My name is Autumn and I am a financial advisor at CIBC. I am looking for a new friend who I can confide in, who is open minded and who share similar interests as I do. I have a keen interest in psychology and therefore I have a few questions to ask you to get a better idea of whether we will click as friends.

What are your top three favourite colours?

What are your top three favourite animals?

What are your top three favourite destinations (whether you’ve visited or not)?

I look forward to connecting with you.

Autumn

Second Email

Hi Autumn,

It’s a pleasure to meet you. How amazing to hear that you’d like to own your own business, that decision completely changed my life. Although, I have to say being in charge isn’t something I’m a natural at, in fact, I find myself much better at taking instructions. But to each their own!

To answer your questions:

Favourite colours: blue, green, grey

Favourite animals: dogs, opossums, capybaras

Favourite destinations: Japan, Germany, Iceland

I hope that’s enough information for you to get a better sense of what I am, and I really hope we connect soon.

Look forward to hearing from you,

Roberto

Third Email

Hi Roberto

How exciting it is to hear back from you.

I’m sitting at lunch with my girlfriend reading through my dictionary of colourful psychological personalities. My favourite colours are pink, associated with love, nurture and compassion, red which is associated with dominance, passion and sexuality, and black, which is the colour of sophistication, mystery, power and control.

We looked up your colours and found that blue is associated with calmness and peace. However, what really confuses me, is that green represents new beginnings and growth whereas grey represents conformity and boredom. Does this contrast between green and grey have any sort of personal connection? 

Your favourite animals seem to have a commonality in terms of a gentle and passive temperament so it really supports what you shared about yourself, preferring to not be in charge. I, myself, share an appreciation for all 3 of those animals but I would prefer lionesses since the female is in charge of the hunting and hyenas & bonobos, because the females run the clan/group and also control the males.

Japan, Germany and Iceland are all very open about sex, with Japan focusing less on monogamy. Interestingly, Germany is also the stereotypical country for the birth of the BDSM community. Is there something you’re trying to tell me?

I understand you said you prefer to let others take charge, but is there a thing or two you could teach me about control?

I can’t wait to hear your responses.

Autumn

Fourth Email

Hi Autumn,

That’s a very insightful read into my colours. I can’t say I’ve ever analyzed myself quite as deep but I can definitely see where I’m in an ambiguous and unsure place right now, and certain things and peculiar sensations has me craving for more.. and my travels certainly helped peak my interest into the less orthodox ways of pleasure..

From what you’ve told me about yourself, you’re definitely sounding like someone who knows exactly what they want, and can get what they want. Is that something you also bring into your personal life, perhaps more in a more intimate way?

Roberto

Fifth Email

Hi Roberto

It sounds like you figured me out. I do know exactly what I want and always get what I desire. I also want to confess that I wear the pants in all of my relationships - including with my new found friends.

Do you believe in the analysis of dreams?

I also have another confession to make, which is a little embarrassing. I had a dream last night about what you looked like naked. I wonder if this is a sign that I will get what I want…

Autumn 

Sixth Email

Hi Autumn,

Sounds like you’ve already asserted control in our exchanges, and I must admit I like this dynamic quite a lot.

I find dreams quite fascinating, usually shrouded in a cloud of truth. How did you imagine my body, and any parts in particular? If you’d like to command something from me, I surely can’t say no..

Roberto

Seventh Email

Hi Roberto

Well the dream was quite hazy and hard to really get a clear picture. Something from the dream that I do remember was I had you face up, with your hands cuffed above your head and I remember you were begging me to let you cum as I was teasing your cock. I remember it was one of the nicest cocks I’ve ever seen. I became really wet that you were verbalizing your submission to me.

Another secret that I have is being in control is very arousing for me - it’s not just a preference in my relationships. I’m wondering if you would ever be open to the idea of letting me practice my sexual side of domination? I don’t have much experience and I promise I’ll be gentle…

Autumn 

Eighth Email

Hi Autumn,

That description of your dream has me erect. Just thinking about the longing tease, makes me wish we can meet up and play out that dream.. and I’m definitely open to the idea of letting you practice your dominant sexual side, as I’m also exploring my submissive side. 

Roberto

Ninth Email

Hi Roberto

I’m excited to hear that you are open to the idea of helping me explore with you - and also me allowing you to explore yourself in the process. 

I want to ensure that you are ready to fully give yourself to me so I wanted you to test your willingness to submit. I want you to go to the bathroom 2 times tomorrow (for 20-30 seconds) and stroke yourself but do not cum. I just want you to feel some pleasure but it is under my orders that you do not reach climax. I want you to write down what you feel and send me an email each time you do this for me. If you can obey my orders, I think we can maybe play out my dream on Thursday.

Are you ready to surrender?

Autumn

Tenth Email

Hi Autumn,

Just obeyed your order for the first time today. I must admit I was fully erect just walking to the bathroom. It was quite difficult holding myself back from stroking my hard cock any longer, but at least I know I can do this again later today.

Roberto

Eleventh Email

Hi Roberto

I am very proud of you. Only one more time to go today. If you succeed without any climax, I will reward you tomorrow.

Autumn

Twelfth Email

Hi Autumn,

Just did it a second time, this time in the gym washroom. It was quite a bit more arousing because of the risk. Can’t wait for my reward tomorrow.

Roberto

Session Day

Roberto texts me from the parking lot. “I’m here”, he says. I let him know how to access my unit, allowing him to enter without knocking. He walks through my door and I see him for the first time. I put my hand out to shake his hand and as he is reaching back, I put my handcuffs on his wrist.

“Can I please have a shower” he asks politely.

“Yes, you may. But, you are not allowed to leave. You are under my control and my orders now.”

He agrees that he will not try to escape.

When I hear the shower shut off, I corner him in the bathroom and order him on his knees. I place the Collar of Submission around his neck, reassuring him that the euphoric feeling he is experiencing is him being hypnotized, fully under my control.

Leading him by his leash, I instruct him to lay face down on the massage table. Massaging his neck, moving down his back to his legs and feet, I gently caress his butt crack, balls and penis, which is pushed downward for me to play and tease in between his legs.

I slide my bare breasts on his back, enjoying every moan under his labored breathing.

Instructing him to flip over, I place the handcuffs on his wrist above his head. “Just like my dream except now I have you face up and I can see your cock in real life”

I’m sitting between his legs, running my fingers up and down his shaft, playing with his balls, and around the entrance to his Prostate. I enter the tip of my finger into his ass and allow him to use his body to guide me in. Once we get past the hard part which involves a little pain, undoubtedly, he feels me fully enter deeply inside of him while I gently play with his prostate. His eyes are rolling back and he is losing his mind. He begs me, “please can I play with my cock and your breasts?”

“You have been such a good subservient sex slave. I think you have earned your right.”

I get on my knees and rub his cock all over my soft, natural breasts. He starts stroking his cock as I’m playing with his prostate, and he blows his load all over my breasts as his final climax. 5 days of build up at my direction - and totally worth it

Good slaves know they must earn their rewards by following my rules, and fully submitting to my desires.

My Takeaway

This role play was in line with what Roberto desired: to be captured by a woman and used as a sex slave, incorporating edging and a prostate massage. At the beginning of our conversation, as highlighted in our emails, I was trying to trick Roberto into believing that I wanted him to teach me how to take control. My goal was to have him enter my condo and tell him that I tricked him into becoming my sex slave. I also wanted to throw in the fantasy that he rude to me at the bank and this was my revenge on him. As you can read in the first few emails, he was resistant and, in a way, he was trying to take control of the situation by reaffirming his desire to be submissive instead of allowing me to take psychological control by following my lead.

I shared this with Roberto afterwards and he told me that he didn’t realize how was reacting to it. I reassured him that I knew it was coming from a good place of trying to help me get into the role-play, but it certainly wasn’t the direction that I wanted to take it as the whole idea of capturing someone comes with psychological trickery.

It is interesting that with some introspection, and with experience, we can find ways to hone in on how to make things better and refine our techniques. If you are submitting, you have to go with the flow. You can’t be resistant to the direction of the plot because you never know where I will be leading you to. This would’ve been an amazing surprise for him as he shared that he didn’t realize that I was going into this much in depth. My whole idea was to create a psychological mindfuck that he was tricked into, which was an essential part of ramping up the idea of fully submitting to a female who has captured him as her sex slave.

He shared that it was a positive experience for him, especially the edging at my orders. We talked about how edging yourself with accountability to another person produces heightened euphoric effects and sexual excitement. Having that level of the psychological component and connection enhances the experience tenfold.