This week, over social media, I shared an experience with a 💘 who asked me why I was so confident. I blurted out that it was because I...

Trigger warning: this article mentioned CSA (childhood sexual abuse) and SA (sexual assault during adulthood). Please don’t proceed if...

When we look at species from an evolutionary perspective, we are examining the animal or human’s chances of passing on their genetics to...

One of my close friends ended their relationship with their childhood best friend because they were in a relationship with someone who...

This week I made a post on my X/Twitter account regarding the idealized time frame that some clients (or even society as a whole) believe...

From an evolutionary psychology perspective, we are primed to focus heavy on the negative for self-protection against any dangers and to...

If you categorize every sexual desire into giving up control, taking control or sharing control, every fetish (or sexual encounter) can...

I wanted to share about my experiences at the Taboo Show - Everything to do with Sex show in Toronto over the weekend. However, I just...

I came up with this logo a few weeks ago and it’s so interesting how seamlessly organic the process can be when everything feels right...

I see you & you are loved and accepted. I see that you are laughing at some thing that you desire. You were laughing because you were...

I am not an escort. And I am not a dominatrix. I’m somewhere in between. I am a kink ally and I speak out against any type of shaming. I...

I was thinking about a conversation that I had the other day. This person was referred to me because they were looking for an outlet for...

I have always been typical, but liked to be in control sexually, but not in a domineering way. I never understood what that meant until I...

My dad becomes hyper fixated on projects that bring him joy. It may not always be practical but the main point is that it gives him a...

I was having a conversation with a lovely person and we started talking about auditory sensory meridian response (ASMR). I was inspired...

I was having a conversation with a lovely person last week and we were talking about several topics, but one that I will talk about today...

I wrote this blog a few months ago and I wanted to share it with the authenticity of the time - not making any changes. Enjoy. Last night...

As many of you may (or may have not) have noticed, I’ve taken an extended break from posting my weekly blogs this summer. In exchange for...

I mentioned in my Instagram and Twitter post this week that “people will treat you how you let them” with an attached picture. I thought...

This week I met them a lot of wonderful people who complemented my blogs. With some prompted feedback, the general consensus was a...